Saturday, March 2, 2019

Local NJ School Board Announces Elimination of Special Ed Director with No Plan and No Notice to Parents

The Sandpaper's Rick Mellerup questions Pinelands Regional Board of Education 02/26/2019

On Tuesday, the Pinelands Regional School District Board of Education unceremoniously announced the elimination of the district's Director of Special Education, without providing any notice to the parents of the approximately 380 affected children (nearly a quarter of total enrollment), no plan in place going forward, and tried to avoid answering questions about the change altogether.

At the Feb. 26, 2019 board meeting, the board voted on a resolution to "effectuate a “Reduction in Force” and layoff the Director of Special Education," a resolution which was published at 10:35 am that morning, four links deep into the district's website.

No notice was given to the parents of affected children, and consequently, no parents of special ed children knew to show up at the meeting and voice their concerns.

Fortunately, reporter Rick Mellerup of The Sandpaper did attend the meeting, and questioned the board about this decision.

Mellerup told the board that he had researched all of the district's departments, and "Special Ed had far more administrators and teachers than any other department, and I'm wondering how you could possibly eliminate the position of department head of Special Ed?"

"And again you can address that later. If you don't, I'll come back at you," Mellerup added.

School board Vice President Patricia Chambers replied "You don't, you know, I'm not even going to comment on your last question. That is a personnel issue, so we're not at liberty to discuss that."

"But are you eliminating the position?" Mellerup pressed, and again, Chambers refused to answer.

 "I'm not at liberty to discuss, it's on the agenda the way it is," Chambers said, a lie that Mellerup would later expose.

The board then discussed, and voted on, the 19 agenda items in section B of the agenda, and not one member brought up the resolution or debated it. They voted unanimously to pass it. (Watch here)

Following the vote, Mellerup pressed the board again on the decision.

"I'm sorry that we can't get any sort of answer on the reduction in force," Mellerup said. "You said it's a personnel issue. We've always had discussions here about reduction in force, not a termination. It's just..."

District Superintendent Dr. Melissa McCooley then offered comment on the issue that Chambers had earlier falsely insisted that they were not at liberty to discuss.

"So I'm going to give you an overview of that decision," McCooley said. "I've been here now since June of 2018, I've had the time now to do a careful analysis of all departments, as well as our budgetary concerns, and I've decided to move the district in a different direction."

"Okay, is it going to be shared services?" Mellerup pressed.

"It could possibly, moving forward," McCooley replied, adding "Right now we have a consultant that you saw on the agenda tonight, and he will be here part-time per diem."



So with no prior notice, Dr. McCooley unilaterally decided to eliminate the district's director of special education, and offered no plan to replace the services going forward, without notifying the parents of the affected children. This is a done deal, there is nothing any of them can do about it.

Two days later, the parents were notified of the change in an email which read "The purpose of this email is to inform you the [sic] Ellen Ward, Director of Special Services, is no longer with our school district. Tom Hand will be serving as a part-time consultant for the department. The plan moving forward is to have a permanent replacement in 60 days. If you need assistance with your child's IEP, please contact their caseworker."

But according to the leader of a special needs parents group, even that email was only sent after she suggested it on Thursday.

Reached by phone on Friday, Dr. McCooley objected to the idea that the decision was unilateral, saying "I did have an audit done of that department, and based my decision on the findings of that."

She also claimed that "notice was sent out to parents, a blackboard went out yesterday in the form of an email."

Neither of those things are true, an email two days after the fact does not constitute "notice," and the words "my decision" are literally the definition of unilateral.

Furthermore, despite the show vote at the board meeting, Director of Special Education Ellen Ward had already been fired sometime on Tuesday, at 9 am according to McCooley.

McCooley also said she believes that even if parents had been given notice of the resolution being voted on and shown up to protest, the board would have voted the same way "based on the information from the audit."

That audit, she added, "can't be shared with the public."

According to McCooley, the district is going to seek a shared services agreement with the Little Egg Harbor school district, but that plan has not been approved. Under such a plan, LEHT Director of Special Services Erin Lichtenwalner would service both districts. A vote on that proposal is tentatively scheduled for March 20, she said.

McCooley says such a plan will save the Pinelands Regional district $70,000.00, out of a budget that was over $32 million this year, and which featured a $137,565.00 increase in state aid for special education. Despite that increase in state aid, the board has cut special ed supplies, textbooks, and equipment by $79,939.00, in addition to the money they will save by eliminating the director. McCooley also explained that Ward will continue to be paid for 60 days following her dismissal.

McCooley now says she will try to get a summary or some other version of the audit made public, but for now, she insists that parents should be reassured that things will be better because of a secret report that they're not allowed to see.

Additionally, on Sunday, McCooley said that she's trying to organize a "parent night" to answer questions about the change that has already been made.

Parents who were reached for comment are not happy about the decision, or the way in which it was carried out.

Jennifer Griffin, the mother of a special education student in the school's autism program, said she felt the change had been made "sneakily," and "for the exact purpose of us not being able to attend the meeting, where they would be more or less forced to have to answer all our questions, which [Dr. McCooley] obviously wouldn’t have had many answers for."

"It’s worrisome that these board members and superintendent had no regard for parental opinion," Griffin wrote in an email, "like we are unimportant and not worthy of knowing what’s happening to our child’s program until it’s too late to do anything about it."

Sandy Evans, a parent with a multi-disabled child in the school district, said she was "upset that notice wasn’t given so I could be in attendance and have questions/concerns answered instead of message sent after the fact." She called the move "scary," and wondered "How can one person handle two districts of special needs population properly, efficiently without cutting corners?"

"To just hit us with this news without warning is sneaky in my opinion," Evans said, and added "I think at this point I’m going to have to drop everything else in my crazy life and focus on this situation."

 Michele Collins-Davies, one of the leaders of the special education parents group CATS (Creating Awareness Together for Success) at Pinelands, says that the day after the school board meeting, she told Dr. McCooley that parents were unhappy about the move, and the lack of transparency.

"I reached out to the superintendent Wednesday after I reviewed the board meeting minutes and video," Collins-Davies said in an email, adding "Our group was not informed that a vote was being taken to eliminate the Director of Special Ed."

When McCooley called her back on Thursday, Collins-Davies said that Lichtenwalner was on the call, as well, and that McCooley told her that Ms. Lichtenwalner would be taking over the position in 60 days, even though that proposal has yet to be approved.

"I explained that parents were concerned about this lack of communication on these changes," Collins-Davies said, which is when McCooley offered to send the notification to parents.

"The parents that I have interacted with are concerned about a reduction in service for the special education students," Collins-Davies said.

Several parents who wished not to be named expressed similar alarm, and noted that when Dr. McCooley met with the group several weeks ago, none of these potential changes were discussed. They also say that parents and school officials are already being referred to Lichtenwalner for questions, despite the fact that she is not a district official.

Dr. McCooley said, Sunday, that she's "not aware of any questions being referred" to Lichtenwalner, but that "She has helped out in the past and will continue."

"Little Egg and Pinelands has that relationship," she added.

Dr. McCooley was sent a draft of this article for review and comment. She replied with a text message that read "I find the entire piece rude and insulting with many errors and assumptions. You are free to publish whatever you want on your blog however I will no longer correspond with you."

When offered the chance to identify any errors, McCooley replied "As I said you are free to publish what you want but your article is one-sided and your opinion. I'd be happy to meet with you during the week just let me know".

The board members who voted in favor of this resolution were Thomas D. Williams, Jr., Karen Poklikuha, Jeffrey Bonicky, Susan M. Ernst, Patricia Chambers, Betti Anne McVey, Christie Palladino, Stephen Kubricki, and Kim Hanadel.

Update: Superintendent McCooley has scheduled a Q&A session Thursday, March 7 at 5:30 pm at the Pinelands Regional Junior High School Media Center.

More Secrecy and Dishonesty at Parents Meeting

On Thursday night, several dozen parents showed up to Dr. McCooley's Q&A session, which lasted about an hour and a half. New Jersey State Ombudsman for Individuals with Intellectual or Developmental Disabilities and Their Families Paul Aronsohn was also in attendance.

McCooley was joined by Erin Lichtenwalner, who is slated to take over as director of special services under the share services proposal, and Tom Hand, the consultant who conducted the audit that resulted in his own appointment to a lucrative part-time stint in the position until Lichtenwalner is installed.

The meeting began with a Powerpoint presentation, and in yet another example of an utter lack of transparency, McCooley refused to share the presentation with parents who were not present for the meeting.

While much of the meeting was devoted to vague assurances to the parents, there were several notable examples of further dishonesty, secrecy, and indifference to the objections of parents.

When asked why no attempt was made to notify parents of the Reduction in Force proposal before the board meeting, McCooley responded by inaccurately referring to it as a "personnel issue," and stating that she doesn't "typically" notify parents about such issues. In the same exchange, she insisted that the former director was not fired, meaning it was not a "personnel issue."

McCooley repeatedly ignored follow up questions, including whether she would notify parents in the future of such important proposals.

The meeting also shed some light on the secret audits of the special education department that McCooley commissioned. Parent Charlie Roth asked McCooley about an audit that was approved in July, and conducted by Shelly Myers.

According to the July board meeting agenda, the board approved a "Motion to approve Shelly Myers to conduct an audit of the Special Education Department, concentrating on out of district placements, with a cost of $1,000."

But at the Q&A session, Lichtenwalner insisted that Myers "was not doing an audit of any program" and McCooley claimed "it was not an audit," which, if true, means that the motion that the board approved was a lie.

And when Roth asked if Myers had a "relationship with anybody in this room," McCooley revealed that Myers is Lichtenwalner's mother. McCooley and Lichtenwalner each insisted that McCooley was not aware of the relationship until after Myers was hired.

"This really doesn't pass the giggle test," Roth told Lichtenwalner. "And now you're going to get an extra job, and an extra income. The timing is just terrible."



McCooley also claimed that the secret audit upon which she based her decision to eliminate the director was approved in November, and was conducted by Mr. Hand.

But according to the November board agenda, there was no audit proposed or approved. The only related item was a "Motion to approve Thomas Hand as Educational Consultant for the fiscal year ending June 30, 2019, not to exceed $1,800."

Instead, the audit was conducted without specific approval from the board, and without the public's knowledge or consent, by the same person who stood to gain a $60-an-hour job based on the audit's secret findings.

On Thursday, McCooley also continued to refuse to share the results of that audit with the public, despite the promises she made last week to try and do so. The Sandpaper's Rick Mellerup pressed McCooley on the issue.

You just said that the audit did not involve any personnel issues at all, correct?" Mellerup asked, to which McCooley agreed..

"Was there a lawsuit involved with this audit?" he asked, to which McCooley replied "No."

"Okay, if it didn't have any personnel evaluations, and it wasn't a lawsuit, how can you possibly say that you can't release it?" Mellerup asked.

"Because there may be student information in there, I want to hand it over to the attorney to make sure nothing in there is confidential," McColey replied.

Several parents expressed dismay that this had not been done prior to the vote on eliminating the position, or even prior to Thursday night's meeting.

Board Vice President Pat Chambers was also confronted for lying to Mellerup at the board meeting by telling him she was "not at liberty to discuss" the RIF proposal prior to the vote, and Chambers lied again.

"No, I said I would answer that question, that's where you're wrong," Chambers said. As video of the board meeting clearly shows, she twice refused to answer Mellerup's question about the RIF by telling him she was "not at liberty" to discuss it.



At another point in the meeting, several parents expressed dissatisfaction that the shared services agreement is a fait accompli, as was the decision to eliminate the director in the first place.

McCooley said that "Both boards would have to approve the shared service."

She was then asked if the board had already agreed to approve the arrangement in private, and McCooley essentially confirmed that they had.

"I've spoken to both boards in executive session about this," McCooley said, and when asked if they agreed to approve it, said "They will formally approve it at a board meeting."

But even after that clear admission, two other board members spoke up to, at best, mislead the public.

Neighboring Board President Robert Moncrief said "As a member of the Little Egg Harbor board, no, the board has not agreed to approve anything, we only do that in public session in compliance with all laws."

This is misleading, because McCooley had just stipulated that no formal approval had been made, but indicated an informal agreement. Moncrief simply repeated the irrelevant and obvious fact that the agreement to approve has not been expressed publicly.

 "The Pinelands board must have agreed to it, because they voted to lay off..." Mellerup began, and was interrupted by Chambers, who echoed Moncrief.

"Pinelands board has not agreed to the shared position," Chambers insisted.

"Okay, so you laid off the director, but you had no idea what was coming up. Come on," Mellerup said, adding "there's no way you don't know that this is going to happen."



A review of the minutes from that executive session would clear up the discrepancy, but logic and McCooley's own answer indicate that both boards have, in fact, secretly agreed to approve the shared service proposal.

McCooley says those minutes will be posted to the board's website "when they are complete and approved," but declined to say when that session took place. A review of executive session topics  in board agendas since the audit was approved shows no discussion of a shared service agreement.

While several parents have publicly expressed anger and concern about the dishonesty, secrecy, cronyism, and self-dealing at play, others have said they're afraid to speak out for fear of a variety of recriminations.

They have also expressed skepticism, publicly and privately, about the assurances that McCooley and Lichtenwalner have given about the services children will receive under the new arrangement, based on their experiences with Lichtenwalner in Little Egg Harbor and the Pinelands administration's handling of the current issue.

Given the lying and the secrecy, it's reasonable to ask why parents should believe anything the board or the superintendent tells them.

Update: Here's video from the March 18, 2019 Little Egg Harbor BOE meeting, where they voted to approve shared services.

This is Dr. McCooley's presentation:



This is the public comment section before the vote:



This is public comment after the vote:



This is board member Daleo's letter to the parents for the record, scolding them for contacting a public official:



  [The author is the parent of a special needs child in the Pinelands Regional School District. The author gives permission to republish this reporting with proper credit and link, where possible: Tommy Christopher]

Friday, May 18, 2018

Facts about kids and parents and guns

Here are two pieces I wrote a few years back that have some good research on kids' access to guns, and the NRA's campaign against gun storage laws. The Texas school shooter used his dad's guns.

Access Of Evil: How The NRA Protects Children From Being Safe

Recent events like the shooting death of two year-old Caroline Sparks demonstrate thatchildren gaining access to firearms is a problem that often has tragic results, but at least we can all agree that it is a problem, right? Well, not exactly. The defenders of gun culture scoff at the very notion that a five year-old owning a gun could be reason for concern, on the theory that the gun culture’s emphasis on safety will save them. In reality, though, that culture’s bannermen at the NRA not only fight efforts to keep kids safe (efforts that they themselves support), and obstruct other proven solutions, they also offer a gun safety program which, studies show, actually makes kids more likely to play with guns.
Not every child who gains access to a gun ends up shooting someone, even though in April, it sure seemed like it. In addition to Caroline Sparks’ shooting by her five year-old brother, there were at least 12 shootings by children as young as two years old. Even with adult supervision, children with guns can be a recipe for tragedy, but keeping kids from having access to guns without adult supervision ought to be a no-brainer.
The first step to solving any problem, of course, is admitting that there is a problem. The National Rifle Association has an odd streak of denial on that count. In press release after press release, they have said that “Everyone knows that firearms must be stored safety, particularly when housed with children,” but oppose laws that would require such safe storage on the grounds that it;s not the government’s role to mandate this. Their opposition to safe storage laws depends greatly on the truth of that statement, on the notion that such laws are unnecessary, because everyone already knows to lock their guns up, especially when there are kids around. They deployed that particular argument in opposition to safe storage laws that would have affected all gun owners, not just those with children.
Obviously, though, everyone doesn’t know that, because 40% of gun-owning households with children store their guns unlocked. A charitable person might be tempted to accuse the NRA of nothing more than willful ignorance, of ignoring the problem because it doesn’t suit their needs. I’m a charitable person, but I couldn’t imagine where 40% of gun owners with children would get the idea that they shouldn’t lock up their guns. Oh, wow, really? From the NRA? I’m shocked.
In press releases opposing bills that would have required adults with children to lock up their guns, the NRA said that such laws “would have rendered homeowners defenseless and given criminals a clear advantage in home invasions,” and that they would have the effect of “rendering firearms useless in self-defense situations.”
So, everyone knows that firearms must be stored safely, which no one should ever do because it makes them sitting murder ducks? Maybe the NRA has a different understanding of safe storage where children are concerned:
Store guns so that they are inaccessible to children and other unauthorized users. Gun shops sell a wide variety of safes, cases, and other security devices. While specific security measures may vary, a parent must, in every case, assess the exposure of the firearm and absolutely ensure that it is inaccessible to a child.
But only if you want them to be murdered in a home invasion. Got it.
Not every parent who stores their guns unlocked is a paranoid NRA member, though. The rest probably do so out of ignorance of the risks guns pose to children, and/or overconfidence in their comfort with guns, or complacency. While I’m in favor of safe storage laws that establish a beneficial norm (and which studies show are effective), enforcing them before the fact would be impractical even in a favorable political environment, and enforcing them after the fact can just seem cruel. Luckily, there’s a way to reduce children’s access to guns that is simple, free, and proven to be effective. From the American Academy of Pediatrics:
Studies have shown that storing household guns unloaded and locked reduces the risk of unintentional injury and suicide for children and adolescents.
Pediatricians play a key role in injury prevention by providing anticipatory guidance to parents to help minimize the risk of injury in the child’s everyday environment. In controlled studies, individuals who received physician counseling were more likely to report the adoption of 1 or more safe gun-storage practices.
Well, this is great! You’re already going to the doctor, and it’s not like they charge extra for this. Who could possibly object to such a beneficial arrangement, with a family’s most trusted caregiver?
“We take our children to the doctor because they’re sick or need health care,” says Marion Hammer, a former National Rifle Association president who is the executive director of United Sportsmen of Florida, the NRA’s legislative affiliate for the state. “We don’t take them there for political dialogue or for pediatricians to ask us not to exercise a constitutional right.”
That’s also the NRA’s official position on a 2011 Florida law that made it illegal for doctors to discuss gun ownership with patients, except under certain narrow circumstances. That law was later blocked by a judge, but the NRA is pushing similar laws in other states, as well. While I agree that everyone should have the right to politely refuse to discuss such matters, the safety of our children demands that doctors not only be able to ask questions and offer advice on gun safety, but that they be required to.
Unfortunately, the NRA also lobbied their way into President Obama‘s Affordable Care Act, inserting a provision that restricted the collection of information about guns that convinced many doctors that they couldn’t discuss guns with their patients. The chill was so thorough that the President had to include, in his 23 executive actions on gun violence in January, a clarification that “the Affordable Care Act does not prohibit doctors asking their patients about guns in their homes.”
While die-hard gun culturists might bristle at being given advice on guns by some pencil-necked doc, even the most knowledgeable parent might learn something from their child’s pediatrician. Aside from the 40% who don’t know that they should lock up their guns, parents who do lock up their guns might be interested to learn this:
Keeping a gun locked and keeping a gun unloaded have protective effects of 73% and 70%, respectively, with regard to risk of both unintentional injury and suicide for children and teenagers. These findings were consistent for both handguns and long guns (rifles and shotguns).
I didn’t know that, and that information could be very useful to a parent who keeps guns. It wouldn’t be likely to persuade many of them to get rid of their guns, but it might make them that much more vigilant. They might also learn that, locked or not, 22% of children in gun-owning households have handled a gun without their parents’ knowledge. Parents can do what they want to with that information, but they ought to be given it.
I hate to be cynical, but the NRA’s objection to doctors even asking about gun ownership seems to be rooted in an obvious, disgraceful motive. Their concern about privacy doesn’t really wash, given the already-intimate nature of the doctor-patient relationship. Could be that, while discussing gun safety, pediatricians are also likely to offer this advice:
The best way to keep your children safe from injury or death from guns is to NEVER have a gun in the home.
  • Do not purchase a gun, especially a handgun.
  • Remove all guns present in the home.
  • Talk to your children about the dangers of guns, and tell them to stay away from guns.
  • Find out if there are guns in the homes where your children play. If so, talk to the adults in the house about the dangers of guns to their families.
People ignore their doctors all the time, but that could still put a hefty crimp in sales.
Not having a gun in the house with your children is still no guarantee of their safety, especially if they’re going to be exposed to friends whose parents don’t lock up their guns. As such, the NRA’s dual campaign, to get parents not to lock up their guns for fear of a home invasion and to prevent doctors from advising other parents from locking up their guns, is a danger to your children, even if you don’t own guns. If you’re a responsible gun owner, the NRA is risking your child’s life every time he or she goes over to a friend’s house.
But, hey, at least the NRA offers The Eddie Eagle GunSafe® Program, for when kids run into those guns that the NRA told their parents not to lock up. The organization offers the costumed mascot to schools and other institutions for a “nominal fee,” but let me save you the dough:
If you see a gun:
STOP!
Don’t Touch.
Leave the Area.
Tell an Adult.
That’s it. In the Eddie Eagle videos (one of which stars Jason Priestleyand a giant cellphone), cartoon kiddies are drilled on memorizing that routine to an interpretive dance (the Glockarena?), and the only indication of the risks posed by the guns is a single mention that they might “get hurt.”

Now, some cynical Brady Campaign crank says that Eddie Eagle is just a fig leaf to give the NRA cover for all of the other ways it undermines children’s safety, but even if that’s true, what’s the harm? Well, according to multiple studies, the Eddie Eagle program doesn’t work, and even seems to encourage some children to play with guns when they find them:
Gun avoidance programs are designed to educate children as a way of reducing firearm injury (eg, Eddie Eagle, STAR); however, several evaluation studies have demonstrated that such programs do not prevent risk behaviors, and may even increase gun handling among children. In contrast, results of a large national randomized controlled trial demonstrated that brief physician counseling directed at parents, combined with distribution of gunlocks, may be effective in promoting safer storage of guns in homes with children.
A recent randomized controlled trial found that a safe storage campaign with gun safe distribution was both feasible and effective at limiting household exposure to unlocked and loaded guns.
There’s no way to completely eliminate the risks that guns pose to children, but the NRA is doing worse than nothing. Right now, there’s a loaded, unlocked gun waiting for a child to find it, in part because the NRA tells its members that locking up their guns (even with children in the house) will get them murdered, and in part because the NRA has done everything it can to prevent doctors from giving sound advice to parents. If the NRA has its way, the only thing standing between that child and death is Eddie Eagle and the Glockarena. Even if the gun culture won’t demand it, their kids deserve better, and so do everyone else’s.

Your Kids Are Already Playing With Your Guns

The recent shooting death of two year-old Caroline Sparks has focused attention on the issue of children’s access to guns, but as it happens, Caroline’s accidental shooting by her 5 year-old brother is far from an isolated incident. In the month of April, there were at least nine “toddler-involved shootings,” as independent journalist Rania Khalek calls them. Gun owners may think to themselves, “Well, thank God I keep my guns locked up,” and non-gun-owners may think, “Thank God I don’t have any guns in my house,” but both groups might be surprised to learn that their overconfidence is unfounded.
A three year-old who shot himself in the thumb with a gun he found tucked under a bed at his father’s girlfriend’s house.
The 4 year-old who shot and killed his aunt in a room full of adults, including a sheriff’s deputy who was also a school resource officer.
The two year-old who shot his motherRekia Kid, in the stomach as she held her weeks-old infant.
Brandon Holt, the New Jersey 6 year-old who was shot and killed by a 4 year-old playmate, at a range of about 45 feet.
Georgia 3-year-old Qui’ontrez Moss, who shot and killed himself while visiting his uncle in South Carolina. Moss shot himself in the head with a gun belonging to the uncle, James Patrick.
Seven year-old Gavin Brummett, who accidentally shot and killed himself while shooting with his father and brother on their property in Kansas.
Nine year-old Shayla May Shonneker, who was accidentally shot in the face and killed by her mother’s boyfriend. Joseph Wolters was practicing his draw when the gun went off.
A six year-old Kansas girl who was accidentally shot by her 14 year-old cousin.
South Carolina 2 year-old who pulled a gun out of his father’s jacked and accidentally shot himself in the chest.
The Idaho 3 year-old who shot a ten month-old in the face while both were left unattended in a car.
The four year-old son of Antonia O’Brien, who was shot in the leg by his 10 year-old sibling.
These stories each have their unique circumstances, but the one thing they all have in common is that the young shooters all gained access to guns that they shouldn’t have. Well, they have one other thing in common: we now know about them.
May is off to a quick start for child shootings, as well. Last Wednesday, 3 year-old Darrien Nez shot and killed himself, and on Saturday, 6 year-old Angela Divin was shot in the chest by her older brother. The news article about the latter shooting, submitted by a Mediaitereader, contained a disturbing statistic (emphasis mine):
According to the Children’s Defense Fund, one-third of all households with children younger than 18 have a gun, and more than 40 percent of gun-owning households with children store their guns unlocked.
The fund also reported that 22 percent of children with gun-owning parents handled guns in their homes without their parents’ knowledge.
I’ve always thought it stood to reason that, for every tragedy in which a child gains access to a gun, there must also be many more instances where kids play with guns, and the parents never even know about it. I just never knew how many. That’s one in five.
The Children’s Defense Fund gets that statistic from a 2006 study conducted at an Alabama family practice clinic (emphasis mine):
Of 420 parent-child dyads, 314 agreed to participate; 201 of the 314 homes contained guns. Children younger than 10 years were as likely as older children to report knowing the storage location (73% vs 79%, respectively) and to report having handled a household gun (36% vs 36%, respectively). Thirty-nine percent of parents who reported that their children did not know the storage location of household guns and 22% of parents who reported that their children had never handled a household gun were contradicted by their children’s reports. Such discordance between parent and child reports was unrelated to whether parents stored their firearms locked away or had ever discussed firearm safety with their children.
CONCLUSIONS:
Many parents who were living in homes with firearms and who reported that their children had never handled firearms in their homes were contradicted by their children’s self-reports.Parents who locked their guns away and discussed gun safety with their children were as likely to be contradicted as parents who did not take such safety measures.
It’s probably a stretch to apply that exact stat to the general gun-owning population, but until better data is available, it’s impossible to ignore this finding, which not only means your own guns might not be safe from your kids, but even non-gun-owner’s kids aren’t safe when they’re at someone else’s house (or even near it, as Brandon Holt’s story demonstrates). Even if you do everything right, or decide not to even own a gun, your kids might already have handled guns without your knowledge.
As it happens, pediatricians agree on the best way to manage the risk of firearms to children:
The best way to keep your children safe from injury or death from guns is to NEVER have a gun in the home.
  • Do not purchase a gun, especially a handgun.
  • Remove all guns present in the home.
  • Talk to your children about the dangers of guns, and tell them to stay away from guns.
  • Find out if there are guns in the homes where your children play. If so, talk to the adults in the house about the dangers of guns to their families.
This would seem to be the natural place to begin the conversation, but the current gun culture, as defined by mainstream pundits, begin and end it with 5 year-olds owning their own guns.